Gay.com has over 4 million member profiles and, unlike nearly all dating sites, it caters more to men than women (although both genders are well represented). We appreciate the site's professional demeanor and that adult content is reserved for premium members ($9.95 per week, up to $79.95 per year). The AutoSearch function runs periodic queries for new hits in your area, then e-mails you the results. Also handy is the virtual Black Book, with which you can bookmark or block profiles, and the chat tools are excellent.