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Half of Us Snoop on Our Partners' Phones

We're looking for evidence of cheating when we snoop—and more than half of us find it.

 & Chandra Steele Senior Features Writer

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There's a fifty-fifty chance that you've taken a peek at your partner's phone. That's not me, that's a survey talking.

WhistleOut—which compares phone, TV, and internet provider plans—teamed up with market research agency Lux Insights to ask people how much they respect the privacy of their significant other. And while privacy is a major issue when phones track everything we do outside the home, it turns out things aren't much safer on the domestic front.

Not only have 50 percent of the survey's respondents said they've looked at a partner's phone, but 48 percent of women and 31 percent of men thought this was OK to do. There's usually a reason why people resort to this behavior—and that reason is that they suspect their partner is cheating. Less than half (43 percent) found out they had nothing to worry about in the first place. But others found flirty texts, evidence of talking to an ex, outright proof of cheating, actively used dating apps, and even some unkind words about themselves.

But instead of this resulting in a 100 percent chance of a fight or breakup, only 38 percent of couples found themselves on that rocky path.

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Chandra Steele

Chandra Steele

Senior Features Writer

My Experience

My title is Senior Features Writer, which is a license to write about absolutely anything if I can connect it to technology (I can). I’ve been at PCMag since 2011 and have covered the surveillance state, vaccination cards, ghost guns, voting, ISIS, art, fashion, film, design, gender bias, and more. You might have seen me on TV talking about these topics or heard me on your commute home on the radio or a podcast. Or maybe you’ve just seen my Bernie meme

I strive to explain topics that you might come across in the news but not fully understand, such as NFTs and meme stocks. I’ve had the pleasure of talking tech with Jeff Goldblum, Ang Lee, and other celebrities who have brought a different perspective to it. I put great care into writing gift guides and am always touched by the notes I get from people who’ve used them to choose presents that have been well-received. Though I love that I get to write about the tech industry every day, it’s touched by gender, racial, and socioeconomic inequality and I try to bring these topics to light. 

Outside of PCMag, I write fiction, poetry, humor, and essays on culture.

My Areas of Expertise

  • Making incomprehensible tech news easy to understand
  • Expanding the boundaries of topics covered in the industry
  • Figuring out tips and tricks in apps and on devices and letting you know about them
  • Putting together gift guides for everyone in your life 

The Technology I Use

All that gadgets is gold for me: my iPhone 11 Pro, my fifth-generation iPad that I use only for streaming videos and music, my iPad mini 4 that I like to take with me whenever I carry a bag that can fit it, and my MacBook Pro. Why are they all different shades of gold, though? What’s going on, Apple? 

None of them quite live up to my two past loves: my LG Lotus LX600 phone and my Sony Walkman NW-E005 MP3 player. 

I've never given up wired earbuds so I was ahead of all those trend pieces. I use a Mangotek Lightning-to-3.5mm headphone jack adapter to connect them to my phone. 

I have had so many ebook readers, but I prefer paper to them all. Still, my Kindle Paperwhite is perfect for traveling or when I’m too impatient to wait for a book to be released in paperback.

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